Magical Christmas comes to kids sailing along Baja
Thursday, December 22, 2005
To this day, Barry Wright thinks of Dec. 25, 1961, as "the magical Christmas."
"It's when my understanding of the words, 'It's more blessed to give than to receive' changed," the Lake Oswego man says.
Barry was 17 in 1961, growing up in Southern California. That December Barry's aunt, Thyrza Pelling, invited him on an excursion into the tropical waters of the Gulf of California. "She owned a 62-foot staysail schooner named Destiny, tied up in San Diego," Barry says.
He couldn't turn down the offer. Thyrza was his mother's twin sister, 41 years old, widowed "and living as though life were both an adventure and a duty."
Today Thyrza is 85 and lives in Lake Oswego. She's traveled the world, climbed many mountains and still recalls Christmas of 1961 as one of the best in her life.
Early Sunday morning, Dec. 17, Thyrza, her sons Rodney, then 20, Trevor, then 15, Barry and a hired captain powered Destiny out of the harbor and headed south. "We ran diesel all the way down the coast of Baja because our vacations were short and warm seas were 900 miles away," Barry says.
On Christmas Eve they rounded the tip of Baja and entered the tiny harbor at Cabo San Lucas. "Cabo in 1961 consisted of seven adobe houses painted white and arranged in no discernible order," Barry says. "Between and around them was nothing but white sand and an occasional cactus."
There was a rickety pier with a wooden shack where local fishermen took on fuel and water. Along the pier was space for only one boat, and another boat was ahead of theirs.
It was a 40-foot ketch, Barry says, named The Maori. From a distance Barry and his cousins could see "three young, totally naked children playing tag in the rigging." A "large man with thick, dark hair and a beard" was at the helm as it moved slowly toward the pier.
Thyrza wanted to meet the folks on the other boat; she had Rodney take her over in a dinghy.
She learned the man was Howard Taylor, brother of Elizabeth Taylor. He and his wife and four children, ranging in age from 9 years old to 11 months, had been inching their way south from California for several months. They'd run out of water a few days before, Thyrza says. "They'd been drinking milk and fruit juices," which had caused digestive problems. "They were very nice people, and they'd had a terrible time."
The water in Cabo was good, clean rainwater. "They got water and got cleaned up," Thyrza says.
But here it was Christmas Eve, they had a boat full of children and no gifts to give them. "Because they'd run out of water and become sick . . . that meant they wouldn't reach Mazatlan and its stores by Christmas," Barry says. "They explained to the children that Cabo was too small for Santa to find."
Barry, his aunt and his cousins felt like they were watching a fable unfold before their eyes.
That night Thyrza assembled Barry and her sons. She'd brought a small Christmas tree from San Diego, she said. "I said, 'Why don't we give this to the children. They'll get much more fun out of it. You're all so grown up,' " Thyrza recalls. "And they all just lit up. They thought it was a great idea."
Thyrza woke the boys early Christmas morning. "They went over the side into the dinghy," Thyrza says, "and I handed them everything very quietly." She included boxes of candy canes and some small treats.
"I didn't have toys," she says. "I hadn't bought anything for little children. We thought the tree would be an emblem of Christmas. It was all I had, so that's what we gave them."
Barry, Trevor and Rodney took pains to be silent as they boarded The Maori. "The fear was you'd wake them and ruin the magic," Barry says. They set up the tree on the fantail, hung candy canes from its branches and set small food gifts at its base. Then they rowed back to the Destiny.
"We stayed below deck," watching through portholes, Barry says. "We had binoculars, and we waited for the moment to come."
Barry remembers what happened as though he were watching a silent movie: "A little girl, 3 or 4 years old, emerges, actually rubbing her eyes. As she takes her hands off her eyes, she sees the tree. She's jumping up and down. Then she runs below deck, then comes back up on deck. The hatchway is crowded with kids and mom and dad. Everyone gathers around the tree, it's a melee."
Finally, Howard Taylor "looks at us and just raises a hand very slowly. And that's all. Then we left for Mazatlan."
Days later, Barry and his cousins flew north to return to school. His aunt Thyrza ran into the Taylor family in Mazatlan. They were beginning a trip around the world, they told her. Later Barry read they'd made it to Tahiti, but he never learned if they made the full circle.
"I've always thought it was an awfully sweet Christmas story," Thyrza says. "It happened so spontaneously."
Barry believes "my life took a large step toward adulthood" that day. "You run into so few really magic moments in your life," he says. "And that was one where all the magic pieces came together."
Margie Boule: marboule@aol.com, 503-221-8450.
